MATTHEW 21:23-32
ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER
SEPTMEBER 25, 2005
A friend of mine tells about a member of his church – and how he learned a lesson about the difference between people “act religious” – and those who do Christian actions – whether they “act religious” or not.
“I disliked him, the moment I saw him” my friend confided about this particular person.
It may come as a shock to some of you to hear a pastor say that he dislikes someone in his church – but it happens from time to time. We are human too, you know.
Anyway – my friend described this person this way:
“He was loud, a braggart, probably a bully. In the first five minutes of conversation with him, you quickly learned that he had made a lot of money, through all sorts of business shenanigans. He liked running things and, no doubt, probably wanted also to run the church, and to run me as well. He only came to church when he felt like it. He had had conflicts with previous pastors, and everyone told me he would probably have conflicts with me. People said that he liked to make a big show of his financial success. And yet, people also said that he gave very little to the church. What he gave, he thought gave him a license to freely criticize the church and its pastor.”
My friend said he kept this person at arm’s length – always leery of what he was doing or what he was up to – and never trusting him.
Until he learned something about this man he never would have guessed.
While visiting in a nearby city, my friend was introduced to someone as the pastor of the church he was serving. The person said, “Isn’t that the church where (and gave the man my friend disliked) is a member?” My friend cautiously “Yes, he is a member of the church. He is a member, though not a particularly active member,” my friend added just to cover himself.
“I’ll always be indebted to him, me and a lot of people like me,” the man said.
“Indebted?” my friend asked.
“Yeah, he is the one who paid for my education. My education and a lot of people like me. I worked in one of his businesses after school when I was in high school. My senior year in high school, I got a note from him. He hardly ever spoke to me when I would run into him at work. The note said something like, ‘I want to help you with college. You get into the best college you can, and I will see you through.’ That was all. I got in a good college and he paid just about every cent of it. And I wasn’t the only one. I expect that he must have footed the bill for a couple of dozen young people in that town.”
My friend thought for a moment – letting this soak in.
“That’s hard to believe. I don’t think I have ever heard that of him,” my friend replied lamely.
“I bet you never will.” The man continued. “He asked us not to tell anybody about his generosity. He said he didn’t want everybody beating on his door asking for a handout. I think the real reason is that he is, deep down, a genuinely humble person. I do know for sure that he has sure done a lot of good in his own quiet way,” the man said.
The man then left – as did my friend. When my friend e-mailed me the story he commented:
“I don’t know about you, but I find such unrestrained generosity, coming from a person like this member of my church annoying. It is annoying when those people, those people who are not self-evidently good people, those people who are not well- formed church people, turn out to be such undeniably good people. This man – who does not act like a church person – is doing more for others than many of the people in my church who act so good are doing. He’s doing more than I am doing. What do you think God thinks about that?”
Good question.
What do you think God thinks about that?
Who is doing what God wants us to do – the man who is obnoxious – but helps others – or the person who sits in church – looks good – can talk all day about God – looks like the model Christian – but does not do what God calls us to do?
Who is truly living the Christian life — the man who is obnoxious – but helps others – or the person who sits in church – looks good – can talk all day about God – looks like the model Christian – but does not do what God calls us to do?
The answer is fairly simple – isn’t it?
Of course the man who does things to help others is doing what God wants us to do more than the one who may look like the model Christian but does not have actions.
A fairly simple answer to a question – and yet one that we may not want to hear.
I don’t know about you – but I don’t like hearing that someone who does not appear to be a Christian – maybe an obnoxious person who tries to “run the church” – or maybe even the neighbor who never darkens the door of the church – or maybe even the man or woman on the street who is drunk or high most of the time –
I don’t like hearing that they may be doing God’s will better than we are – better than I am.
You probably don’t like it, either.
You’re probably thinking:
“What do you mean – these people who try to push people around – or try to impress others – or who have never darkened the door of the church – or who truly don’t look like ‘religious folks’ – might be doing God’s will better than we are – — better than you are better than I am”?
Unfortunately, when we become offended by ideas like these – we are close to the attitude the Pharisees had.
You see — the Pharisees thought that their knowledge of God’s laws and their piety and their long robes and prayer shawls would impress God. They were the “good church people” of Jesus’ day. They thought that if they “looked the part” of a Godly person God would think they were Godly people – never mind the fact that they did not actually do anything God wanted them to do and always looked for ways around actually obeying God’s laws.
Surely – they thought — they were much better than – and God loved them much more than — this rabble – rouser named John or his cousin Jesus — who talked about God loving sinners – and even hung out with the worst sinners they could find. And when these sinners – these tax collectors – prostitutes – and all kinds of other ne’er do wells said they had found God – had found religion – and began acting in ways that showed God to others – well, the Pharisees held them in suspicion and would have nothing to do with them.
Surely God loved them – the Pharisees – better than “those people” – “the sinners” – and surely they would enter heaven before these repentant sinners ever would.
Don’t be so sure – Jesus says.
In our scripture passage for today, Jesus tells a story about a man with two sons.
– The father asked the first son to go to work in the vineyard, and the son said that he would — but he didn’t.
– The father asked the second son to go to work in the vineyard, and the second son said that he wouldn’t — but he did.
Remember Jesus was talking to the Pharisees here. The religious men — the best men of His day — men who prided themselves in doing what God wanted them to do – but, in fact, often failed to do what God wanted them to do. And the men who criticized Jesus for talking to and hanging out with people they considered sinners – people who may have blatantly acted the opposite of how God wanted them to act — but many of whom gave their lives to God and began doing what God wanted them to do.
So Jesus told them about two sons — one who said “No” but did “Yes” — and the other who said “Yes” but did “No”.
“Which of the two did the will of his father?” Jesus asked. If you were paying attention during the reading of the scripture you know the answer to that question. Even if you weren’t paying attention, you can probably figure it out.
When Jesus asked the religious men, they said that the better son was the one who said “No” but then did what the father asked. You parents probably agree that you would prefer that — the son or daughter who finally does what you asked. It isn’t perfect, but it is better than the son or daughter who never does what you ask.
Jesus told about these two sons to illustrate a point.
His point was that, in Israel, there were two kinds of people.
One group was sinners — tax collectors and prostitutes — lowlifes all. God was not happy about the way they lived. Tax collectors in that day cheated people – and you know what prostitutes did. But some of these tax collectors and sinners knew that they were in the wrong – and when John the Baptist and then Jesus came preaching, “Repent, for the kingdom of heaven has come near” his preaching touched their hearts and they repented. The tax collectors quit cheating and the prostitutes quit consorting. The tax collectors and prostitutes responded to John’s preaching because they knew they were in the wrong — knew that they needed to live differently — knew that they needed to repent and change the direction of their lives. So they did! They repented! They changed the direction of their lives.
The other group of people were the religious folks – the best of which were the priests and elders — scribes and Pharisees. They heard John the Baptist, too – but many of them, when they heard John say, “Repent!” — thought he was just talking to the tax collectors and prostitutes. My guess is that they were in John’s cheering section — thinking, “That’s the way to tell them, John! Say it again!”
But they did not think he – or later Jesus – was talking to them. And so they failed to repent. They failed to repent, because they didn’t think that they needed repentance. They thought of themselves as God’s faithful sons. They thought that they were doing everything that they needed to be doing. But they weren’t. They made a great show of religion, but their hearts were far from God. John called them a “brood of vipers” — Jesus called them hypocrites.
So Jesus told this story of the two sons to drive home the point that the tax collectors and sinners who repented were way ahead of the great religious men who failed to repent. He wanted them to see that just looking the part of the religious person – just giving “lip service” to God without really acting in God’s ways – was not impressing God at all.
Jesus told this story to let the great religious men know that they needed to repent just as the tax collectors and prostitutes and everyone else did.
Jesus told this story to let them know that – - if they did not repent and act in God’s ways – the tax collectors and prostitutes and other sinners who did repent would enter heaven – and they would not.
Now – let’s return to that question you might have had a few minutes ago:
“What do you mean – these people who try to push people around – or try to impress others – or who have never darkened the door of the church – or who truly don’t look like ‘religious folks’ – might be doing God’s will better than we are – — better than you are — better than I am”?
What I mean is this.
The actions speak louder.
If you think you have any special deal with God just because you come to church and sing and pray and listen for one hour a week – but don’t let it change who you are or how you live, you are sadly mistaken.
If you think you are better off than someone who is the worst sinner you can think of just because you come to church and sing and pray and listen for one hour a week – but don’t let it change who you are or how you live, you are sadly mistaken.
If you think that can afford to pass judgment on someone who may not act the part of a good church member – but has decided to follow Christ and has begun doing God’s will – you are wrong.
If we think we are better than others simply because we go to church – but fail to truly do what God calls us to do — we are no more obedient to God than the son who said would do what the father asked – but didn’t do it.
If we think others don’t stand a chance with God – or with us – because they originally turned God down – then saw how wrong they were and repented – - we are wrong.
The son who originally said “no” – but then did what the father asked – turned out to be obedient.
The son who originally said “yes” – but did not do what the father asked – turned out to be disobedient.
The actions speak louder.
The sinners who originally said “I don’t need God” – but ended up repenting and living in God’s ways – turned out to be obedient to God.
The religious leaders and religious people who acted like they were so good – who said they would do what God told them to do — but did not do God’s will – turned out to be disobedient.
And Jesus said the sinners who originally said “I don’t need God” – but ended up repenting and living in God’s ways will get into heaven before the religious people who acted like they were so good – who said they would do what God told them to do — but did not do God’s will.
The actions speak louder.
Who’s in first?
Who gets into God’s kingdom first?
The sinners who originally say “I don’t need God” – but end up repenting and living in God’s ways – — or the religious people who act like they are so good – who said they will do what God tells them to do — but do not do God’s will?
The answer is obvious – but threatening.
The actions speak louder.
It’s the people who actually do God’s will who enter the kingdom – not the ones who say they will do it but don’t.
It’s the sinners who know they need to repent and follow God who get into God’s kingdom – not the “good people” who think they have not need to repent.
The actions speak louder.
Maybe we need to be more like the sinners who repented than the “good people” who did not –
More like the son who said “No” but ended up doing what the father asked than the son who said “Yes” but never did it.
Yea – just acting like we are going to do God’s will – looking good and playing the part – isn’t enough.
We have to actually do it.
The actions speak louder.