“An Attitude Of Gratitude”
Part 4 of Hopewell Stewardship Series 2008
November 23, 2008
What are the most important things for us to be doing?
What are the most important things for us to remember?
We began our Stewardship emphasis for this year 4 weeks ago as we looked at what it truly means to live as Christians – and what the most important things are for us to remember as we strive to live our lives in God’s ways.
What are the most important things for us to be doing?
What are the most important things for us to remember?
4 weeks ago I talked a little about “final exams” and the Ordination Exams every Seminary graduate has to take before being ordained – and how they were filled with questions to which we prayed that we had answers.
I also talked about how Rick Warren — in his book The Purpose Driven Life — writes that God has a Final Exam for us. He writes that — when our life is over — God is going to have 2 questions for us:
1. How did you respond to my Son Jesus Christ?
2. What did you do with what I gave you?
2 questions.
If you answer them in the way God wants you to answer them, He has a place in heaven prepared for you.
If not, your place will not be in heaven.
Maybe it would be wise to look at how to answer these questions in the way that will please God. As we move through November, we are going to look at the fact that God has questions for us – and whether or not we have answers.
4 weeks ago we looked at the primary passage that we’ll be looking at for the next few weeks — Matthew 22:34-40 – and saw that responding to Jesus by loving God with all our heart, soul and mind – and loving others as ourselves – are the 2 primary ways we can respond to God’s questions of how we responded to Jesus and what we did with what He gave us.
3 weeks ago we looked further at exactly what it means to love God and love others as we looked at Matthew 23:1-12 – and discovered that we not only have to talk about loving God and serving others – we have to do it. We can’t be “Do as I say – not as I do” Christians – we can’t be “Do as I say – not as I do” Church members – but we have to be Christians – we have to Church members – that show God and the Christian life to others I what we say and in what we do.
2 weeks ago we continued as we looked at Matthew 25:1-13 – and saw that it means using the gifts God has given us wisely. You see — when it comes to living the Christian life and using the gifts God has given us – we have to wise guys – and wise gals.
Last week we continued by looking at Matthew 25:14-30 – and saw that God does not want us to waste our talents.
Today we are going to look at Luke 17:11-19 – and see that we need to have an attitude of gratitude – and be thankful for all God has given us.
Listen to God’s word as we look again at Matthew 22:34-40 – then look at Luke 17:11-19.
How did you respond to my Son Jesus Christ?
What did you do with what I gave you?
2 questions that God may ask us when we get to heaven.
How did you respond to my Son Jesus Christ?
What did you do with what I gave you?
God does not want us to have to say:
“Lord – I know you gave me so much – and I know that you blessed me in so many ways – but it was hard for me to remember what I had to be thankful for as I lived my life every day.
Things happened, Lord.
Sometimes there were bad things going on in my life and I found it hard to focus on the good.
And then – at other times things were going reall well – but I didn’t think about how the good things were really from you – and I didn’t stop and thank you for them.
You understand – don’t you – Lord?”
No – that is not the response God wants to hear from us when He asks us how we responded to Christ and what we did with what He gave us.
And – yes – God would understand that response – but what God would understand is not what we might want Him to understand.
What He would probably understand is that we were not thankful for what He gave us.
What we would understand is that we did not an attitude of gratitude.
When it comes to responding to Christ, and using what God has given us – we need to look at all that God has given us – and have an attitude of gratitude.
We need an attitude of gratitude.
We need an attitude of gratitude.
How did you respond to my Son Jesus Christ?
What did you do with what I gave you?
Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and mind
Love your neighbor
Love God
Love others
Love Jesus
Love others
How did you respond to my Son Jesus Christ?
What did you do with what I gave you?
If you can say:
“I loved Jesus with all my heart – soul – and mind”
You are able to give a response that is in line with what God wills for you to answer.
Having a personal relationship with Christ is the first step towards living the life God would have us live. That’s why – every day – you need to ask yourself:
“How are Jesus and I getting along – right now?”
“How are Jesus and I getting along – right now?”
If you can also say:
“Lord – I loved Jesus – and I used what You gave me for Your glory – and to do Your work and will in the Church and the community”
You are able to answer God’s questions in the way God intendeds.
If you can also say:
“Lord – I loved Jesus – and I used what You gave me wisely –
I used Your gifts to me to make a difference in the world and the community for Your glory – I used what You gave me to do Your work in the community and the Church – I used what You gave me wisely to make a difference for You in the Church and the community.”
You are able to answer God ‘s questions in the way God intends.
If you can also say:
“Lord – I loved Jesus – and I knew You gave me many talents and many abilities. I used them for Your glory and to do Your work in the community and the Church. I did not waste my talents and abilities – but used them for Your glory”.
You are able to answer God ‘s questions in the way God intends.
If you can say:
“Lord – I loved Jesus – was aware of all you gifts to me – and thankfully used them for Your word and will in the world.”
You are able to answer God ‘s questions in the way God intends.
How did you respond to my Son Jesus Christ?
What did you do with what I gave you?
We need to have an attitude of gratitude.
An attitude of gratitude.
I read about a man who was talking to his teenage son after the two ot them had ridden a commuter train outside of New York City. It seems they were surrounded by middle-aged men who were worn out. Their clothes were wrinkled, their shirts were heavy with perspiration as they hunched over in their seats and clutched their copies of The Wall Street Journal.
After they got off the train, the son said: “Dad, they all seemed depressed.”
Have you ever noticed how few people appear — from the looks of their faces and from their body language — to be really happy? As you observe people from your automobile, or see them walking in the grocery store or the shopping malls, you see face after face looking tired, worn out, bored, or just drained of any emotion. You can go for hours without encountering a single truly happy person.
Life gets more serious as we get older; we know that. But one gets the impression that even kids are not as carefree as they were in the past. It’s a fact that team spirit and school enthusiasm have significantly weakened at the secondary level all over our country. High school students are a lot more serious than they once were. When you notice young people not having as much fun as they’re really entitled to have, you realize this is a symptom of a serious problem.
There are a myriad of reasons. Young people are from hurting and broken homes. The economy is not as promising as it once was; kids face doubt about the future. They face pressure to do well academically to get into a good school—a cheap school but a good school. They’re studying harder. They face scary problems in schools; violence is commonplace. There’s a lot of pressure to have sex—but don’t get pregnant! There’s confusion about sexual identity, and the rules change rapidly. Many young people don’t have a compassionate, wise person to help them sort these things out. No wonder it’s not as much fun to be a kid nowadays.
One of the most important things any church can do for young people is help them laugh. I love being a part of our Youth Group activities where our young people gather and we laugh – talk – and share God’s love with each other. I hope y’all realize what a great group of youth we have here at Hopewell – and what great leaders we have.
Churches and Christian homes can – and should — be places of joy. One of the secrets of a joyful spirit is coming to understand the graciousness of God.
Our mighty, holy, awesome God is at heart a gracious, generous, giving, compassionate, merciful God who cares about you – and blesses you.
When you look at all God has blessed you with, you can be thankful – and have an attitude of gratitude.
An attitude of gratitude.
How did you respond to my Son Jesus Christ?
What did you do with what I gave you?
Love Jesus
See what God has given you – be thankful for it – and use it for God’s glory.
Have:
An attitude of gratitude.
If we can come to appreciate and understand this, and let it work its way through our lives—our thoughts, our emotions, our relationships—we can be transformed by the grace of God. We will become more thankful people, and thankful people are joyful people. With Thanksgiving Day this week — it’s an appropriate time to reflect on this.
An attitude of gratitude.
Luke has given us a story from the life of Jesus that helps us reflect on the importance of being thankful for God’s goodness to us – the importance of this attitude of gratitude. Luke’s story can help us to grow in our own understanding of this important issue. With the story of the ten lepers, Luke emphasizes the rarity of a thankful spirit – the rarity of this attitude of gratitude.
Jesus healed 10 lepers of the hideous disease – and only one returns to thank Him. Notice Jesus’ final words:
And Jesus asked, ‘Were not all ten cleansed? Where are the other nine? Was no one found to return and give God praise?’”
Ten had been healed of a disease that made them outcasts to society and that made them disfigured people – but only took the time to thank the person who had made his recovery possible.
Only one had an attitude of gratitude.
How did you respond to my Son Jesus Christ?
What did you do with what I gave you?
Love Jesus
See what God has given you – be thankful for it – and use it for God’s glory.
Have:
An attitude of gratitude.
Gratitude is rarely expressed.
A clergyman included this item in his annual parochial report: “Nine persons lost at sea.” When the congregation read it, they expressed shock and amazement. He said, “Well, eleven people came to me and requested prayers for e voyages they were taking this year. . But only two asked me to give thanks for a safe return. So I assumed the other nine were lost at sea.”
A man writing at the post office desk was approached by an older fellow who had a post card in his hand. The old man said, “Sir, could you please address this post card for me?” The man gladly did so, and he agreed to write a short message on the post card, and he even signed it for the man, too. Finally the man doing the writing said to the older man, “Now, is there anything else I can do for you?” The old fellow thought about it for a minute, and he said, “Yes, at the end could you just put, ‘P.S. Please excuse the sloppy handwriting.’”
How often do you hear people express sincere gratitude? Try an experiment. Keep track of the number of complaints you hear each day, and compare that with the number of times you hear people express sincere words of gratitude. The complaints will probably outnumber the expressions of gratitude.
Are we really grateful?
Do we really have attitudes of gratitude?
Or — are we more apt to complain than to give God thanks?
A person who has begun to accept how gracious God is to them becomes a grateful person. The have an attitude of gratitude – and are thankful people.
How did you respond to my Son Jesus Christ?
What did you do with what I gave you?
Love Jesus
See what God has given you – be thankful for it – and use it for God’s glory.
Have:
An attitude of gratitude.
I want to offer you three reasons to be thankful
First, be thankful for all the resources God has given you: creative minds, the ability to choose and act decisively, limitless knowledge to be discovered, the ability to grow and expand your horizons in art, music, literature, humor, and beauty—not to mention God Himself, who cares and hears and has given us His Word to show us how to live.
Perhaps some of you here today hace many problems in your lives. I would think that, whatever troubles you might be experiencing, you could sit down and without any trouble make a list of at least fifty concrete things for which to give God thanks. And that’s probably the best therapy for a troubled spirit.
How did you respond to my Son Jesus Christ?
What did you do with what I gave you?
Love Jesus
See what God has given you – be thankful for it – and use it for God’s glory.
Have:
An attitude of gratitude.
A second reason to be thankful is the providence of God. Over and beyond all things that happen, God is at work—guiding, directing, and bringing about his purposes.
In her book, The Hiding Place, Corrie ten Boom tells about an incident that taught her the principle of giving thanks in all things. It was during World War II. Corrie and her sister, Betsy, had been harboring Jewish people in their home, so they were arrested and imprisoned at Ravensbruck Camp. The barracks was extremely crowded and infested with fleas. One morning they read, in their tattered Bible, from 1 Thessalonians the reminder to rejoice in all things. Betsy said, “Corrie, we’ve got to give thanks for this barracks and even for these fleas.” Corrie replied, “No way am I going to thank God for fleas.” But Betsy was persuasive, and they did thank God even for the fleas. During the months that followed, they found that their barracks was left relatively unsupervised, and they could do Bible study, talk openly, and even pray in the barracks. It was their only place of refuge. Several months later they learned that the reason the guards never entered their barracks was because of those blasted fleas.
How did you respond to my Son Jesus Christ?
What did you do with what I gave you?
Love Jesus
See what God has given you – be thankful for it – and use it for God’s glory.
Have:
An attitude of gratitude.
The third reason for giving God thanks is that we’re commanded to be thankful. For our welfare, we’re told over and over to give thanks. Paul says we’re to be joyful and pray continually. We are to give thanks in all circumstances—”For this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.”
Isn’t that why so much of our worship is devoted to giving thanks?
I read of a minister who was meeting with a group of men in his church. One of them commented that he had been learning the lesson of giving God thanks in difficult times. He talked with some pain about serious job problems over the last seven or eight years and how his wife had been recently diagnosed with cancer. He said that he had been learning to give God thanks in the midst of these difficulties.
Choosing, as an act of the will, to thank God in whatever circumstances shows spiritual maturity. It not only pleases God, it puts our problems in proper perspective.
How did you respond to my Son Jesus Christ?
What did you do with what I gave you?
Love Jesus
See what God has given you – be thankful for it – and use it for God’s glory.
Have:
An attitude of gratitude.
John Henry Jowett, a British preacher of an earlier generation, said this about gratitude: “Gratitude is a vaccine, an antitoxin, and an antiseptic.” What did he mean? He meant that gratitude, like a vaccine, can prevent the invasion of a disgruntled, discouraged spirit. Like an antitoxin, gratitude can prevent the effects of the poisons of cynicism, criticalness, and grumbling. Like an antiseptic, a spirit of gratitude can soothe and heal the most troubled spirit.
To stop in the midst of a situation and simply breathe a three-word prayer, “Thank you, Lord,” can change everything. If you want to be a joyful person, you must develop an attitude of gratitude. A thankful spirit produces a joyful person. People who focus on their difficulties are difficult to be around. People who focus on their blessings are a blessing to be around. There’s no shame in weeping over our difficulties. Jesus weeps with us. But gratitude is the ground out of which a peaceful, thankful, trusting spirit can develop. Our tendency is to focus on our problems rather than on our blessings.
How did you respond to my Son Jesus Christ?
What did you do with what I gave you?
Love God – love Jesus.
See what God has given you – and use it – wisely – for God’s glory.
See all that God has blessed you with – and have an attitude of gratitude.
What would it be like if we all were to devote ourselves to loving God and Jesus – asking ourselves each day: “How are Jesus and I getting along – right now?” – and if we all were to devote ourselves to giving thanks to God for all He has blessed us with – and devote ourselves to having an attitude of gratitude – an attitude of praising God for His gifts to us – and using them for His glory?
What would that look like?
What would the Church look like if we all committed ourselves to these things?
I dare say it would look – and even sound – different – as we all shared God’s love with each other and used what God has blessed us with for His work.
What would the community look like if we all were to devote ourselves to these things?
I dare say it would look – and even sound – different as we made a difference for God’s glory in this community.
What would the world look like if we all were to devote ourselves to these things?
I dare say it would look – and even sound – different as we made a difference for God’s glory in the world.
When God asks us:
How did you respond to my Son Jesus Christ?
What did you do with what I gave you?
We need to be able to say that we loved Jesus with all our heart – soul – and mind – that we continually asked ourselves:
How are Jesus and I getting along – right now?
and do what we can to make our relationship with Christ vital and strong.
We also need to be able to say to God:
I realized your gifts to me – and with joy and gratitude used them to make a difference in the Church – the community – and the world.
We need to be able to say that we had:
An attitude of gratitude.
Amen.