“Rules For Thrival”
November 15, 2009
Have you ever had one of those days when it just seemed that life was too much for you to handle?
Have you even felt that life was just too much for you – that there was just too much for you to handle?
Maybe things and people you thought you could trust suddenly become untrustworthy – or may you feel that people are turning against you – or maybe at almost every direction you turn things seem to be “caving in” around you.
Ever had days like that?
I would dare say that we all can identify with days like I have just described.
Maybe you find out that you have lost your job.
Maybe you find that there are no jobs that you are qualified for and will give you the income you need to support your family.
Maybe you find out that your employer is cutting your health insurance – or your salary – and you wonder how you are going to “make it” – how you are going to pay your bills and provide your family with meals and a place to live and needed medications – let alone things like TVs with Cable or Dish, cell phones, computers with internet access and all the other things that you have become accustomed to.
Maybe a doctor gives you a dire health report.
Maybe you and your spouse are not getting along – or your spouse tells you they want a divorce.
Maybe you and your kids just can’t seem to get along.
Things like these – and many other things – can happen in our lives – and cause us to wonder how we are going to live – much less live in a way that can be described as thriving or doing well.
Sometimes these bleak and dark days can turn into weeks – and even months – and even years. There are indeed times in our lives when things happen so fast and hardly anything makes sense.
In a very real way, military personnel – especially those who have gone through the armies Survival, Evasion, Resistance and Escape School – called SERE School for short – know what it’s like to have days when things happen quickly and very little makes sense.
Their day might start with their falling out of a helicopter — but – falling out of a hovering helicopter is the easy part of the day. Once they have roped down to the ground, they might find themselves 25 miles from civilization and equipped with only a knife, a compass, a sleeping bag and a canteen. No tent — despite snow in the forecast — and no food. Their last meal might have been the day before — and they’ll be in the wilderness for days. They have no flashlight or night vision goggles – and it’s pitch-black dark. To top it off, they are in groups of six — and hostile natives are roaming the countryside looking for them.
They definitely don’t want to be found.
Their goal is survival.
But this is no reality show.
There are no “tribes,” no immunity challenges, and no million dollar prize at the end like you would find on “Survivor”. The only reward in this special school is the experience itself — learning how to live under the most extreme of worst case scenarios. Learning to get by on next to nothing. Learning to make do with what you’ve got and understanding that things often get worse before they get better.
That’s SERE School – the final stage of training for candidates attempting to earn the green beret of the elite U.S. Army Special Forces. It’s some of the toughest training the military has to offer, but the lessons learned are absolutely essential for those who are getting ready to move into harm’s way. For SERE School students getting ready to go to battle – to be flown in behind enemy lines – sent on expeditions of extreme danger – tactics for survival – just simple survival – are vital.
As I read the passage for today – Mark 13:1-13 – I thought that it read like a SERE manual for Christians, with Jesus as the primary instructor. Jesus warns the disciples that the days of comfort and security for those who will follow Him are numbered — that very soon they would be dropped – as it were — into a dark world deep in conflict and confusion. They will experience hunger and thirst, war and betrayal. They’d be hunted down. They’d be beaten and tossed into prison. They’d be in shock and awe, fearing for their lives while the enemy made thunder runs on their position.
Like a battle-hardened instructor in the SERE School, Jesus seems to be preparing His disciples for survival in the midst of tough times. It was a lesson they had to learn – for Jesus knew that – before long – simple survival would be the order of the day for His followers.
You know — some people look at our text for today as being about the “end of the world,” but Jesus probably had a more immediate context in mind.
The temple, you see, was going to be destroyed by the Romans in the year 70 AD during a period of fierce war and revolution. The new Christian communities would be in constant danger of persecution. The disciples themselves would experience life on the run and often be on the edge of survival as they took the gospel into the world.
The point is – this is not just “end times” things Jesus is talking about here because — whatever the time and place — the world is a dangerous environment for the followers of Christ. It is not easy to be a Christian and take and try to live out your faith in a serious manner.
Do we Christians need to worry about survival issues like the SERE school teaches – or like Jesus knew the disciples would face?
Probably not —
Yet many of us feel the pressure of trying to live the Christian life – or just plain living in today’s world.
At home, in the workplace, in the world — it may seem that our lives and our faith — and sometimes our sanity – are at stake.
Maybe we are not close to being students in a SERE school, but we all could use some help in learning how — not just to survive — but to thrive in our lives and our faith when things begin to look threatening or different or new or scary. When we are not sure of what is going on or what will happen – when it seems the rugs we are standing on in our lives are being pulled out from under us – when it seems that our lives are out of control due to circumstances we have no control over — we could use some help with how to thrive in our lives and our faith – despite how scary, unpredictable, or unsure our lives might be.
To use another military analogy – we don’t want to live in a bunker in a bunker-buster world, but it can be frightening to come out.
Wouldn’t it be great if we knew how to not only survive as Christians in today’s world – but thrive –
Wouldn’t it be great if we could be Christians that others could look at and want to know what is we have they don’t? Wouldn’t it be great if others who knew what we were going through could look at the way we seem to be thriving – despite these things – and wonder what we have that they don’t?
The key for us is not so much surviving –– but thriving – being excited about our faith – and letting that excitement carry us through whatever else may be happening in our lives.
But – how can be surviving and thriving?
The army’s SERE school has 5 rules for survival that they teach. Follow the rules, and you are much more likely to survive. I think we can learn from their rules – put a Christian spin on them – and have some rules to remember – not to survive in the world — but to thrive and live a life where our faith is important to us and others can see how important our faith is to us.
I don’t call these “Rules For Survival” — but “Rules For Thrival,” — because God is not interested in Christians who merely survive — God wants Christians to thrive – regardless of what is going on in their lives.
So – what are these “rules for thrival”?
Rule 1: Follow your leader.
In SERE school, students are encouraged to elect a leader from among their group – and to follow what the leader says. That’s their first rule for survival.
To survive and thrive as Christians, we have to follow our leader –
and who is that?
Jesus.
To survive and thrive as Christians, we have to follow Christ.
We need to follow Christ
We need to follow Christ’s lead.
We need to let Christ lead us and give us what we need to thrive as Christians in this world.
To thrive as Christians, we have to know our leader – we have to know Christ.
We have to trust Christ.
We have to trust Christ with our lives.
We have to be willing to follow Christ – no matter where He is leading.
Which brings us to a question:
How are you and Jesus getting along – right now?
Are you following Him?
To thrive as a Christian in the toughest times of life you have to make Jesus your leader – and follow Him. Without a strong — personal relationship with Christ it doesn’t matter what other relationships you may have — you are not going to be able to “endure to the end and be saved” as Jesus promised those who followed Him would be able to do. Unless you are following Christ, you have no chance for salvation — and no chance for survival – much less thrival — in the hard times of life. You need to have a personal, life-changing relationship with Christ and feel His power in your life – and follow Him.
To thrive as a Christian – to cope and triumph in this world and in the world to come — a personal relationship with Christ is needed – and you need to follow Christ.
When you think you are at the “end of your rope” — come to Christ.
When your ways and your solutions for problems in your life lead you to a dead end – come to Christ.
In times of hardships, come to Christ – and follow Christ.
Establish a relationship with Christ.
Follow Christ.
In army SERE training the first rule is to follow you leader.
The first rule to thrive as a Christian in the hard times of life is to make Christ your leader – and follow your leader.
Rule 2: Keep the lines of communication open
In SERE training, soldiers are taught how to communicate with each other – and with their leader — even in the worst of circumstances.
To thrive as a Christian in the worst of life’s circumstances, you have to keep the lines of communication with Christ – your leader – open.
You can only do this through prayer
Prayer is that vital link between us and Christ.
You have to know how to communicate with God – and you have to do it.
Keep that communication between you and Christ – your leader – open.
Pray
Also – communicate with your fellow Christians – members of the Church and others. Stay in touch – and support each other.
So – follow Christ – your leader.
Keep the lines of communication open with Christ through prayer.
Rule 3: Don’t try to “do it alone”
Students in SERE School are taught to work together as a team – each one doing what they can to make the team function and to assist in everyone’s survival.
That is what the Church is all about – supporting each other – loving each other – helping each other.
In the SERE team, everyone participates and has a vital role to play. If one person does not do his or her part, the whole group is at risk. In the Church, everyone needs to participate – everyone needs to take part in the life of the Church. Be active in the Church, so that when you run into hard times in your life you won’t have to do it alone. You’ll have a community of friends – a group of folks who will love you and pray for you and help you.
In SERE School it’s also important that everyone does what they can for the good of the team.
You need to do what you can for the good of the team – the Church.
You have a gift – a talent – that the Church can bless and use.
Do what you can for the good of Church.
Not only should you do things like sharing your gifts and talents in teaching or leading – or taking part in the life of the Church – but you need to share your financial blessings with the Church also. This is stewardship season. Think about doing all you can – sharing gifts and talents – attending – and sharing financial blessings – with the Church – - for the good of the Church.
Don’t try to “do it alone” – be an active part of the Church – and give what you can. In that way, the Church will be there when you need it – and you can thrive as a Christian.
Three “rules for thrival” – for thriving in life – even in the hardest of times: follow Christ – your leader – keep the lines of communication open – and don’t try to “do it alone”.
Rule 4: Don’t stop hoping.
One of the secrets to SERE school is that every achievement is celebrated – thus keeping hope alive.
For Christians, it takes hope to thrive – especially in the hardest times of life.
Hope in God
Hope in your fellow Christians
Hold on to hope – and don’t give up.
So now we have 4 “rules for thrival” — for thriving in life – even in the hardest of times: follow Christ – your leader – keep the lines of communication open – don’t try to “do it alone” – and hold on to hope.
Rule 5 – Reach out to others
In SERE School, soldiers are taught to help each other – help keep each others spirits up – help each other when help is needed. Jesus calls us to reach out to each other and others with His love – and show His love to others. This makes you a living example of the God who calls you to thrive in your faith, as well as taking your mind off the problems you may have – no matter how big they may be.
So – there are 5 rules taught for survival in SERE school but that we can use for thriving as Christians in the hardest of times:
- Follow your leader
- Keep the lines of communication open
- Don’t try to “do it alone”
- Don’t stop hoping
- Reach out to others
5 rules from SERE school that we can use. Follow these steps – and they will help you not only survive in your faith — but thrive. They will help you overcome those times when it seems that life is too much for you to handle. These are indeed some of our “rules for thrival”. Amen.