How Will They Know You’re A Christian?
April 28, 2013
Easter 5
We are one in the Spirit – we are one in the Lord
We are one in the Spirit – we are one in the Lord
And we pray that our unity will one day be restored.
And they’ll know we are Christians by our love – by our love
And they’ll know we are Christians by our love.
The words to this familiar hymn were written in 1968 by Catholic priest Peter Scholtes as tried to come up with a way to remind his congregation of the importance of the message in our Gospel passage for today – John 13:31-35. The song speaks of our unity in Christ and the love we should have for each other and others or each other because we are followers of Christ.
That’s the same message the choir just sang:
Friends in Christ, we’ll go where He leads,
Love can grow if we plant the seeds.
Giving and sharing, believing and caring,
We’ll do whatever God needs.
As a follower of Christ, friends, you are commanded to love.
God needs you to love.
“Love one another”
Jesus says.
And the thing is He does not say that this is optional – but He says it is a commandment.
“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.”
It’s a command.
You must do it.
God needs you to do it.
You know — the way you show love or fail to show love to others is also a litmus test that others use to test you to see if you are really a follower of Jesus or not. Whether you like it or not, people are watching you to see how loving you are. If you act in loving ways to others people will know that you are a Christian, If you don’t treat others with love and respect they may question if you are really a Christian or not.
“By this all men will know that you are my disciples” Jesus says –
if you love one another.”
Yea –
they’ll know we are Christians by our love – by our love
they’ll know we are Christians by our love.
And –
Giving and sharing, believing and caring,
We’ll do whatever God needs.
How will people know that you are Christian?
By your love.
But – I have a question for you today – do you think Jesus wants you to keep this love He commands you to have to people who think, act, or even look like you?
I don’t think so. It seems to me that God wants you – and all of us — to show His love to all people – regardless of who they are.
It also seems to me that Christians have struggled since the beginning of the Christian religion with this idea of truly loving all people.
You might know that you are commanded to love. You might even know you are commanded to love all people. You might even know that others will “know you are a Christian by our love” — but sometimes you might find it hard to do that.
Well, don’t feel alone. Followers of Jesus have struggled with showing love to all people since Jesus gave the command to do so.
Do you remember the TV show “All In The Family”?
You probably do. When I was a teenager my family enjoyed watching it. You may have also. The show centered around the lives of Archie Bunker, his wife Edith, their daughter Gloria and her husband Mike. I still laugh when I think of Edith’s high-pitched voice – especially as she sang the duet with Archie that was the show’s theme song – and I especially laugh when I think of Archie and some of his opinions and ideas. Thinking back on it, the show was not just a comedy, it was a show that got folks thinking about their prejudices as it addressed topics such as racism, homosexuality, women’s lib, and other topics that were too controversial for other shows to address, but it addressed in a way that made folks laugh – but also think.
I remember one episode where Archie is locked in the basement of his house and no one is home. He yells at the top of his lungs for someone to save him – but to no avail. Edith, Gloria, and Mike are all out of town for few days – and no one can hear Archie’s cries for help. He finally gives up trying to be rescued, and is certain that he will die there in the basement. He happens to find a bottle of vodka and decides to drown his sorrows. If he is going to die, as least he will die happy. He finally says to God:
“Lord – don’t make me suffer a long time – if I’m gonna die, just come now and get me!”
He suddenly hears a voice as he hears the door open. “Mr. Bunker?” the voice calls – “Mr. Bunker – are you down there?”
“That didn’t take long!” Archie says thinking God has come to get him. He rouses from his stupor, and certain that God is coming to get him, he yells:
“Here I am, Lord” as he staggers around looking for God — – “Hold on Lord – I’m coming!”
Archie finally turns around, and – to his great surprise – a black man is standing there. Well, the look on Archie’s face is priceless – and – still believing it is God he is seeing – and probably remembering all he had said and thought in his life about blacks — he mutters:
“Lord – you’ll have to forgive me – I never knew you were black!”
Maybe that’s something like the reaction Peter had when he had the experience he related to the leaders of the Church in our passage for today in Acts 11:1-18. He was praying on the rooftop of Simon the Tanner’s house when a sheet filled with animals that he had always been taught were unclean and to be avoided was lowered before him and God commanded him to kill and eat them.
“No Lord – I would never eat those unclean animals” he replied.
But God responded that He has made them clean.
Then – God called Peter to go from eating unclean animals to eating with unclean people – Gentiles – Cornelius and his family — and not only eating with them but preaching to them – baptizing them – and watching them be filled with the Holy Spirit.
Maybe Peter thought something along the lines of what Archie Bunker said when confronted with the black man he thought was God:
“Lord – you’ll have to forgive me – I never knew you were a Gentile!”
And when – in our passage from Acts 11 — the Christian leaders call Peter on the carpet about what he has done and he explains his actions and how the Holy Spirit came upon Cornelius and his family, the only response they could make was:
“So then, God has granted even the Gentiles repentance unto life.”
In other words — “Lord – you’ll have to forgive us – we never knew you were a Gentile!”
“A new command I give you:” Jesus says –
“Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.”
“By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”
How will people know you are a Christian?
By your love.
The call to follow Christ is a call to love you to love and show His love to others. It’s not a call to pick and choose who you are going to show love to, or to decide that you are going to love one person but not love another – it’s a call to love – all people. It’s a call to show God’s love, and not just to some, but to all. It’s a call to look for ways to show God’s love to all people, whoever they are, and wherever they are.
At the beginning of our Gospel passage from John, Jesus makes the statement:
“Now is the Son of Man glorified”…
As I have looked at this passage this week I have wondered – what is it that made Jesus glorified at that point? What was special about that point that made Him glorified more than at other points? As I have thought and prayed about this, I have come to the idea that maybe Jesus was glorified at that point because it was at that point that He showed His love for the disciples by washing their feet, and was preparing to show it in the strongest way possible by dying on the cross for them – and for all who would believe in Him.
I believe that Jesus was glorified as He showed God’s love.
I also believe that Jesus is still glorified as you show His love to others.
Your actions of love for all people glorify God – glorify Jesus – and identify you as a Christian. Your failure to show God’s love to some people is your failure to glorify God and Jesus, and your failure to identify yourself as a follower of Christ.
Friends – you will never be perfect. You are not going to ever perfectly show God’s love to all people all the time. You will always struggle with this. The followers of Jesus in the early church continued to struggle with this. Even after Peter’s story of how the Holy Spirit came upon Gentiles and the leaders realized the “God has granted even the Gentiles repentance unto life” members of the early church struggled with Jesus’ command to show love to all people. By the end of the book of Acts Paul is in jail because he had the audacity – as some put it – to bring Timothy – a Gentile – into the vicinity of the Temple. The early Christians struggled with the idea of showing God’s love to all people, and Christians continue to struggle with this.
But – even though you are not perfect and even though you struggle with showing God’s love to all people, you can look for ways to show God’s love to everyone you meet – and look for ways to reach out to all people with the love of God.
Jesus says:
“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.”
and:
“By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”
And they’ll know we are Christians by our love – by our love
And they’ll know we are Christians by our love.
Love can grow if we plant the seeds.
Giving and sharing, believing and caring,
We’ll do whatever God needs.
I think that, when you get to heaven and Jesus asks you if you showed His love to all people, He would not want to hear us say – like Archie Bunker —
“Lord – you’ll have to forgive me – I never knew you were black!”
or – “I never knew you were poor!”
or – “I never knew you were unemployed!”
or – “I never knew you were homeless!”
or — “I never knew you were that person I tried hard to avoid because I didn’t want to get involved in their life!”
or whatever excuse you might want to give for loving some people but not all people.
No – I think Jesus would want to hear you say:
“Lord – I wasn’t perfect – but I tried to show your love to everyone and I tried to meet people’s needs with Your love.”
Friends – people need to know God’s love. They need to know that God cares for them. You know what the best way is for them to see God’s love?
For them to see it in you.
The best way for people to experience the love of God is for them to experience it through you.
People are watching you to see if God really loves them.
People are watching you to see if you are really a follower of Christ – who commands you to love.
Let people know that you are a Christian.
How will they know that you’re a Christian?
They’ll know you are a Christian by your love. Amen.